I'm an ENTP, status-quo challenger, lover of touch, motorcyclist, sapiosexual, progressive, comfort-zone stretcher, percussionist, rule-bender, amateur comedian & recovering perfectionist -- looking to share laughter, curiosity, growth through challenges, and physical intimacy without the heaviness that this has to be "the one".
I've been to 26 countries, virtually all before kids & marriage. While I enjoy an evening relaxing with alcohol or herb, I can just as easily reach an altered state with tantric breathing or out hiking the back country. I am passionate about psychospiritual exploration -- be it in a sweat lodge, Landmark or Context Intl. course, or everyday truthful dialogue.
Just finished reading "Sex at Dawn", written by an anthropologist who points out the challenges of monogamy as lifespans double. Questioning whether I'd ever re-marry after a 19-year split, yet still cognizant I have a ton to offer in terms of companionship :) I recently read/believe that we're sexual beings -- acting as though we’re NOT is what makes us neurotic.
Growing up, I thought that "being grown up” meant having all the answers. Now I strive to model being a Mensch for MY 2 teens (with me 35% of the time) and that, if I’m still breathing, I still have lessons to learn! My fantasy bumper sticker says, “s/he who dies with the most experiences wins”. I see relationships as our feedback mechanism -- successful ones require work & courage.