I'm an ENTP, recovering perfectionist, motorcyclist, comfort-zone stretcher, percussionist, rule bender, touch lover, wannabe comedian, indefatigable entrepreneur, nonstrict vegetarian, frog kisser, truth seeker, lifelong learner, and progressive liberal -- seeking a playmate who might turn into a soulmate, to share laughter, curiosity, growth, emotional/physical intimacy, even some "woo woo" without obsessing "is she THE ONE?"
Growing up, I thought that being "grown up” meant having all the answers. Now I strive to model being a Mensch for my 2 teens. Since I’m still breathing, there's more to learn! My fantasy bumper sticker is, “s/he who dies with the most experiences wins”. I see relationships as our feedback mechanism successful ones require work & courage. Full disclosure: I have good relationships with the significant women in my life.
I've been to 26 countries, virtually all before kids & a 19-yr marriage. Actually hoping to live overseas some day. While I enjoy an evening relaxing with alcohol, I can just as easily reach an altered state with tantric breathing or out hiking the back country. I am passionate about psychospiritual exploration -- be it in a sweat lodge, personal development course, or everyday truthful dialog. I recently read/believe, "we are sexual beings -- acting as though we’re NOT is what makes us neurotic".