Time to update...This is difficult...what does one say in this space to "attract" a person of the opposite sex? To begin with, I am a good woman. I am many things to many people, mother, daughter, friend, confident. I am kind, loyal, trustworthy, humorous, love to laugh, independent, a leader, yet soft, and feminine. I take care of myself...somewhat healthy eater, still like my junk food, but I am slowly giving it up...either workout in a gym or kayak several times a week.