After my marraiage of ten and a half years ended in early 2012 I used the opportunity of being single and on my own for the first time in my adult life to go on a journey of self-discovery and personal growth. I have learned a lot about myself, other people, and life in general, but the most impotrant breakthrough I had was the realization that you do not FIND happiness - you CREATE it. I am not looking for the "right" man to make me happy. I am not waiting for an future event in my life (mariiage, new home, etc.) to be "IT." I already have "IT." I am happy and fulfilled as I am writing this :-)
I am not hund up on particulars - I already married someone who was perfect on paper, and that did not work out so well for me :-) I do not need a certain type of kippah (or one at all), or a certain kosher certification you solely abide by or stay the hell away from. I am looking for someone who is fulfilled on their own - to partner up in creating the life we want for ourselves and our children.