I am looking for a grown up relationship. One that involves phone calls to say goodnight rather than late night texts. Getting dressed up for dinner out rather than sitting at home searching for something worthwhile on Netflix. I want to be with someone educated and ambitious. Someone who is committed to his career as well as the community. Someone who does not respond to a suggestion for plans with a list of other obligations. Someone who is emotionally balanced and always considerate. I want to be with someone who is more than complacent being Jewish, someone who seeks out opportunities for spiritual growth. Someone who gets the beauty of hearing prayer in Hebrew even if he doesn't understand it. A guy who understands on a first date allowing me to pay, even half, is not acceptable.