Hard to describe myself but I'll give it a try. I'm told I look younger than my age, I'm slim, 5'9", 165 lbs. I have an established successful career. I like to go to the gym to stay fit and healthy, and sometimes take hikes on the weekends. For fun I'm pretty easy and like being spontaneous, but I can also plan ahead whenever necessary. I enjoy a movie, good music and concerts (my taste goes more toward alt rock, but I like all good music - subjective, I know) a quiet romantic dinner by candle light, or just staying at home. Love sleeping in while it's raining out, good conversation and good food. I think I've learned from my mistakes and strive to make the next chapter better and fuller than the last. I seek the love of my life, my soul mate, friend and lover. Someone who can be pragmatic in dealing with life's stresses and yet can laugh (especially at themselves) when needed... I seek that one special person who iis willing to take the journey together, knowing we'll both always be there for each other. I'm looking to meet someone who makes my heart light when I'm with her... and also sexy in a deep down soulful way. Also, I'm really 57 but have listed my age younger to avoid the cut-off of 50 for the search algorithm.