About Me

How do I describe myself for a dating site? I'm not even always sure what I want but I'll know it when I see it. I'm very Sure what I am. so I guess I'll start with that. I'm Blunt, Loyal, Ethical, a bit Macho, Old Fashioned, Polite(even though I do swear), Gallant, Honest to the point of harsh often. I've got my own life, run my own business, I would usually say I try to be humble, but this whole profile thing sorta makes humble self-defeating. I'm a bit Geeky, I work in the IT consulting and management field. I like Sci-Fi. I like Female Vocalists. I served in the USArmy, as a Medic and an Infantryman, worked in steel mills, and as a jewelry sales man. All of My life I've had this stupid romantic dream of a mutual life with someone that loves me and is dedicated to me as much as I am to them. to be In love, to have a home based on love, respect, affection. I've been accused of being co-dependant when I was young, and I've come to feel I'm not really, but am looking for a mutually enhancing relationship. I've learned that, being loyal and dedicated is good thing, but can leave me honor bound in bad relationships for a very long time, with women, that just aren't happy. I've learned that I can't fix anyone, or make someone happy that isn't, sometimes you can make someone "Happier", but I don't want to ever date someone that prone to real depression again. I'm a guy's guy in a lot of ways, I like to go out for an occasional drink and (when I was young fight) and talk with the guys, but when it comes to a Superbowl party your a lot more likely to find me in the kitchen with the girls discussing recipes, or theology. Yeah I actually hate sports. can barely stand to be in the same room as a TV with a game on. I can use power tools, and a crochet hook. I have been trained to know how to shoot, and advanced trauma life support. I Love to cook, and I'm often told I'm good at it. I love to eat, and find good beer/wine pairing for meals. I don't expect to have kids but if you have ANY desire must be Observant and Jewish from birth, or an Orthodox convert. --Only for me to consider having kids, not needed dating or even a relationship--