I am bright, witty and humorous, but not overbearing. I am confident, and might have a touch of vanity, but definitely not self-centered. Depending on my mood, I might be in the kitchen trying out a new recipe, crashed on the couch with a good book, or taking in a play at a downtown theatre. I also enjoy dining at fine restaurants, weekend trips, long conversations over coffee or a glass of good wind, lingering kisses, exploring new adventures. I try to work out several times a week to stay healthy. Perhaps like you, I'm searching for the "holy grail" -- a relationship based on honest communication, mutual respect, common goals and some shared interests, the chemistry and mutual physical attraction that bring two people together in the first place, and the simple enjoyment of one another's company that makes it last. A tall order - most definitely but would you really be happy with a relationship that didn't include all of the above? I'm certainly not "perfect" nor am I seeking perfection.