Starting out again after a number of years being married. Like to have fun and enjoy myself. Have a serious side too. I would like to spend time with someone where each of us feel "that chemistry" with each other. Where eventually both consider the other special. Intimacy (closeness, etc.) I found is important to me and cannot compromise it. I feel I know myself and believe the future holds in it the excitement of the unknown. Knowing what is ahead though, has its own advantages. GB
How attractive you are, although important to me, is not the only criteria. I think i explain below what is also important to me. In the long run, would I prefer that thinner curvy body type? what healthy man who has some confidence and a number of women (no...I'm not talking about my mother, daughter, or sister here) say very handsome wouldn't? I'm loyal, love my two grown children and work at maintaining a close relationship with each. As far fetched as it may seem, I meditate, have depth of self & am in touch with my feelings. i usually can make you laugh and both of us enjoy it. I don't even charge for it. lol. I don't want to think how awkward it would be If you didn't laugh.
I meet and talk with people easily,(usually) it's my natural personality. Hopefully, you can tell i can also put a sentence or two together. I feel I'm a very lucky (lucki) and fortunate person and look on the bright side of life. To those I love and care for, I believe & have been told can feel that love and care coming right through to them. they know and have confidence that I'm behind them. I'm not concerned about the money one has. it's who you are and what kind of good person you are. how one looks though, is still very important to me.
i am vice president of our umpires union in Chicago for a few years now. i have in the past and present been invited to umpire in Cooperstown where over a hundred teams come every week, every summer. I also work in my real carer and job. so as you might imagine my time really is valuable to me, especially in the summer. I stopped playing softball competitively in 2012 to devote more time umpiring Illinois High School Association baseball and for other goals (like meeting you). These activities keep me in top physical shape, mentally sharp,and feeling good too.
I happen to win a lot of trinkets and stuffed animals at carnivals and festivals. So far, my age has not been guessed within seven years. Did i just jinx myself? It's mainly in the genes but as I mentioned, i do work at keeping myself in good shape. Just thought of this, kind of funny because it was only just a few years ago.(lol) Kind of corny but here it goes; I was king of my Jr. prom and voted as having the nicest smile.(lol) Really, It's ok to laugh.(with me) loosen up a little & have some fun. Don't take this process so seriously. Oh well give me credit for trying please. I believe age appropriate for me is upper forties and early to middle fifties. While holding hands, I'd hate for a passer by to think i was taking advantage of an older lady