It's easy to say what our deepest desires are, however, that's not the life we live the majority of the time. We are here on this site because we have lost something. We've lost someone whom we once loved. We've lost a life that we once hoped for. And, along the way, we've lost a little part of ourselves.
I've settled into my present life. I have a job I enjoy, I take classes that peak my curiosity. My adult kids are off pursuing their own lives. I've got plenty of friends whom I can talk to and I've got hobbies to keep me busy. Still, at the end of the day, I want a connection. A connection with a man who intrigues me, that excites me, that makes me laugh, and makes me want to be a better person. Is he out there? Maybe.