A question I frequently am asked is "how are you alone?". The answer is both simple and complicated. On one end, I seemingly am attracting people whom are not my type, and on the other end, I am being ignored by people whom I am genuinely attracted to. Yes, it sounds like the story to a cheesy romance comedy film as well as is "what always happens when you use a dating site" according to my friends.
Originally from NJ, college at UMich, graduate school in NJ, first 2 years of med school in Grenada, latter 2 years in Brooklyn (Coney Island area), and now back to Grenada for a year of research fellowship, so forgive me if I am rather callus. It is my Type A personality (though someone said I am more vicious than Type A). I have been told my profile is somewhat of a passive aggressive rant, so if you message me giving me unsolicited advice about improving my profile, I will likely punch you in the face. That is me being "passive-aggressive" . Personally, I feel am an optimist who knows what I want and goes for what is needed. Yea, bad things keep happening to me, but nothing of worth comes without having to endure pain, something most people don't understand. Anyway, I am back on an island that can be most affectionately be called "Hell" till the end of May 2014, but still on here.
So if I am on an island, why am I on here and stating I live in NJ? (Remember: too much of a good thing is bad. That applies to the Caribbean too much of it makes you hate the place) Personally, I am on here to connect with people, have friends, and possibly start a relationship I can look forward and come home to. So I am going to lay it out straight here what I am looking for in a guy (Type A personality, remember).
Looking for someone who is:
-Caucasian or Middle Eastern (like Israel, Turkey, Syria)
-Fit build (BMI under 24 if not muscular) but not a twig
-Professional (emphasis on medical profession but lawyers, PhDs, MBAs, and academics are also loved)
-Age appropriate (no one older than 50 and no babies either, I guess...)
-An user of proper grammar and spelling (slang is annoying)
-Doesn't respond to emails vague or has a vague profile
-Any height (I am not height-ist like some people on here when they say "only interested guys over 5'10" yo")
-Confident enough to have a face picture (it is common courtesy)
If you don't really fit the above, there is a probability I won't respond. If I do, congrats, you passed. If I message you first, extra congrats.