Empathetic, compassionate and with humility I was divorced in May of 2011and for the first time in 40 years I am living in an apartment. My divorce was due to a loveless marriage without any infidelity,drugs, alcohol or physical confrontation. I was married 34 years and the 1st 25 were fine but then the love and affection disappeared. So I filed for divorce. I feel I have a good sense of humor but also the ability to laugh at myself.