I’m here to meet someone great.
I'm warm, funny, smart, curious, creative, optimistic, irreverent, confident, self-aware - and I like to make really upbeat lists of adjectives about myself.
I’m looking for you - smart, kind, funny, positive, cute, affectionate and feminine.
Eventually, I want a best friend to watch the world with. I love taking things apart - psychological, sociological, political and aesthetic. I want the small things we do to be fun because we're so hilarious together. Life is short, and as much fun as we make it.
Professionally, I'm a composer and singer. I write music for ads, films, records and TV. I’ve sung on hit records and movies, appeared on SNL and Letterman and you've heard me sing on tons of commercials you’d know. I've been freelance since graduating Music School in 1987, so I'm not tied down to a 9 to 5 schedule.
I grew up in a small suburb of Chicago (think John Hughes’ films), in a real community where everyone knew each other. I’m friendly and I still say “Thank you.” My word and my handshake mean something. I’m loyal and never a cheater. I’m proud of my Midwestern values.
I’ve also lived over half my life in New York City. I’m well traveled, and I know a little bit about a lot of things. I can fit comfortably into any circumstance. My ideal match will be sophisticated and educated, but she’ll have the broad perspective to put it all into context. She revels in high and low brow alike, and eschews only the uni-brow.
I’ve learned that I need certain qualities of self-awareness in my eventual partner, and of course I will offer the same. Together, we'll make deliberate and thoughtful choices to live a happy life. We won't replay thematic drama. When we need to talk about something, we'll do it productively and with love and respect. We'll both know that “winning” is never found at the other person's expense.
I’ve learned a lot about what I'm looking for (and myself), because I’m twice divorced. Both marriages lasted about 8 years, and I have a beautiful child from each. My first marriage was at 22, so please forgive a youthful mistake? I married again at 34, and although there was a lot of good in it, in the end she was not the right choice for a partner.
My passions include music, conversation, cooking, pop culture, filmmaking, fluff physics, psychology, technology, figuring out how things work, possibly fixing those things, late nights, sleeping in, FoodTV, Chicago Bears Football and whatever cool stuff happens to cross my path.
After 24 years in Manhattan, I moved to Roosevelt Island. It's GREAT here. Please live on Roosevelt Island, in Manhattan or near the subway? I don’t own a car, but I do have a license.
Lastly, I love my kids, and I'm not looking to have any more. If your profile says you want kids, I'm gonna respect that, and I'm not gonna write to you even though you seem really cool. :) If that's you, but you're not really sure if you want kids - write me?
Good luck in your search :)