The past shape our present, but i say, our presence is shaped according to those experience we decide to accept,. You should refuse to spend the rest of you life in pain, because the person who put you in pain might just be out there enjoying himself, and is such person worth to give up your happy life for? so you must let go of such past and embrace a new dawn. I am a good and hard working woman, but my thirst for knowledge about life and happiness has made me a better lecturer or writer,. I did come here knowing many will read my note and like it, we all know i only have one man to share my journey with, but then she would be that one man who isnt intimidated already and then wills to carry on..... I have loved before, but he cheated. .