Kind of shy. Recently widowed 1 1/2 years.. Met her when I was 15 and was never with another woman/girl, so I am not accustomed to the dating arena. I am kind oif shy and somewhat introverted. I spent my entire career as a computer geek/nerd. Yes, I'm one of those!! I want to start living again!! I am a smoker but do not smole in the house or in the car. I am going to make a concentrated effort to give it up!! I am not athletic in any way shape or form. I cherish my family and friends more than anything else in this world.