About Me

my name is valerie. i am an attractive young 49 yr. old woman. I consider myself to be honest, open and very passionate about the people I care for and the things that are important to me. I hope to find love, companionship, intimacy, passion and mutual respect in a relationship. I'd like to meet a man who has good ethics and high morals, a man of integrity and who can communicate his thoughts and feelings. I am raising two boys 19 and 13. They will always be an important part of my life. Their dad, my EX-husband, passed away six yrs ago. I work hard to try and be all for my boys. I love them to pieces, and hope to find someone who will not only respect that, but welcome them just as I will do for his kids. Once you have children you know what happens to your heart. I am a huge Phillies fan and love to go to games. It would be nice to find someone who enjoys baseball and all it's antics. Very much looking forward to the shore this summer. I miss the warmth of the sun, the coolness of the ocean . I also enjoy concerts, going out for drinks accompanied by good conversation. I love the shore, sitting on the beach, long walks by the ocean and dining outdoors. All too often I've come across profiles who say "no drama" "no drama here" The second I read those words I "click out" of their profile. Too funny. There will always be issues that may arise and cause "drama" and stress. Chances are at our age we've been divorced or widowed and have had kids. That's not a black and white life.