Hi, I am divorced with 3 kids(16/13/8). I am very much looking forward to the next stage in my life and finding someone to share it with. I am a normal guy, I really dont like to play games and have a kind heard and a deep(and sometimes complex)soul. I have three great kids which are a priority to me and I am very much involved in all aspects of their lives. I grew up on SI, went to NYU, lived in the city for 13 years and moved out to the burbs when I had kids. I am currently contemplating moving back to the city, which is where I would like to end up again. The JDate or any online dating is new to me, but there seems to be some great people on the site that it would be great to see if there is a connection. I hear a lot of people and posts on this site about finding their "soulmate". Honestly, I'm not exactly sure what that means but would love to find out and experience for myself.