Well, hello! Thank you for checking out my profile. So what kind of lady do I want? I want that person that stimulates me mentally with her intelligence and class, while also creating that intense mutual desire physically. I want that lady who can capture my heart and mind without saying a word. You know what I mean…there’s just something about her that makes me want to call her in the middle of the day to say I love her. She’s the one I WANT to buy flowers for, not because I feel obligated to do it, but rather because I think she deserves them and I want to make her smile. My dream lady will be polite, successful in her own right, passionate about what she does, intelligent, educated, courteous, unselfish, considerate, romantic, and physically attractive. Most of all, she must understand what faithfulness, trust, and honesty mean in a relationship. I’m a hopeless romantic and I wear my heart on my sleeve. I don’t mind showing my affection and desire as long as I know it’s appreciated. And when I know it’s desired from you, I am VERY PASSIONATE!!! Intimacy between us will be adventurous, thrilling, and NEVER boring. I only share my love and passion with the one I am committed to and I don’t like competition and I don’t like to constantly feel as if I have to “win” you. Activities…well, I’m up for anything with the right person…it doesn’t matter. Life is about sharing time with those you love. I will try anything twice (except sushi or mushrooms).
Music: My interests vary widely. I like everything from Sinatra to Sade. Local jazz/bar bands are fun. Classic rock and 80’s stuff is what I grew up on. My faults…I don’t think any of us get to this point in life without a few scrapes and bruises. But we face each day and conquer those obstacles. I’ll admit I’m a bit of a snob when it comes to physical appearance. I’m certainly not perfect; hair is thinning, my teeth could be straighter, and I could lose a pound or two myself. But ladies…seriously…if you tell me you’re “average build” and in reality you’re 5’4” and 180 lbs…I’m sorry but you’re on the large side of the scale. I’m looking for Julia Roberts, not Julia Child! Call me shallow, a hypocrite, whatever…I am just being honest in order to avoid wasting my time or yours. I like physically attractive, LEAN, FIT, women. While hair color doesn’t really matter to me, redheads and accents go to the front of the line! I am a sucker for both! Occupation: I make my living as a writer. I’m not a wealthy man (so gold-diggers need not apply), but I am a good father, I make a good living, and I take care of my child. Children: Again, I am probably being hypocritical here…I have a 14 year old boy who is the treasure of my life. To accept me is to accept him…we’re a package deal. If you want a man who is interested in you, not for what you own, and if you want a man who can be affectionate, considerate, and loyal…give me a try. We just might find magic.