My guy friends tell me I am the perfect girlfriend: I do not need to get married, I already have a house, and I don't want kids. I am fairly independent. I am a speaker on the college circuit, a stand up comedian, a trainer/author/coach .....really a serial entrepreneur....I have a "big" public personality when I am "on" and making people laugh or educating them....and I have a much quieter, shy side at home that not many people get to see. Also, please do not just write hi. If that's all the effort you can muster up, than I am NOT interested. Also, I do NOT drink so if that's really important to you, socially or whatever, then I don't want to waste your time. I am really into health, working out, hot yoga, spinning, and jogging. Of course attraction is important, but what really turns me on is: integrity, honesty, kindness, intelligence, a laid back sense of humor, appreciation of the arts, and giving back in some way.