I am at a point in my life where I know what I am looking for. I have the flexibility and time to build a relationship, but I am looking for a long term relationship and someone who can be my best friend and partner.
I try not to take anything for granted. I've never thought the grass was greener on the other side. I am truly thankful for the life I have. I don't like gossip and believe the ones who enjoy that seem to have plenty of problems of their own.
I am looking for a woman with quick wit and a great sense of humor. It may sound cliche but for me it really is a must. I am looking for a someone who is strong, independent, with a mind of her own, but wants a man she can love, appreciate and count on, and can give the same in return.
She has to be able to hold a conversation on just about any topic. Physical attraction can lead to a conversation but we all know its chemistry that is what we seek. But the chemistry cannot just be in one area it has to cover all the bases. One thing I know for sure is that when you find the right person it should be effortless and pleasurable just to have a conversation.
Sure I like the finer things life has to offer (who doesn't), but none if it has the same appeal without a companion to share in all those "things."
I have two boys 10 and 12 that make me so proud.