I am a big believer in telling it like it is, except if it would hurt someone.I am interested in someone who has the time to devote to a relationship or who will at least try to make the time, as I would. Honesty is my ONLY policy.Nothing is worse than finding out that a relationship is based on lies because I have been hurt so much by that. I am very interested in taking good care of myself and would like to find someone who believes in the same thing. I am not a materialistic person, but I am at a point in my life where I am interested in someone who is financially stable and responsible. I love getting dressed up, and in general looking good for my man .