Dear J-Date. It's been six months since my last confessional. Still haven't found what I'm looking for but thanks for pushing along all the emails! Been very busy with my job as an entertainment journalist - chatting with creative types, going to shows, playing with gadgets (yes, they pay me to do this.) And things are good on the home front - singlehood is fine, I haven't burned down the house or poisoned the cats with my cooking. Would be sweet to find someone that fits Mr. Demanding's very long laundry list of desirable features - one who is smart 'n funny 'n kind, very cute/ pretty in a natural way, physically fit and mentally agile , engaged in her work and the world. She's gotta think and act young, please (I pass for mid-50s and would like to keep it that way.) Geographic desirability is another plus (I live and work in center city.) The ink's still wet on the divorce papers, so I'm not ready to jump head first into another "happily-ever-after" dream plan. But it'd be nice to have a fun and pretty "plus-one" to share dinners, catch a movie, bring along to a show.