I joined here because I'm certain second chances exist. Being Jewish matters to me and i want to love again without providing a dictionary of jewishisms (made that up obviously) but I have to say there are many men here who look but don't talk. Is it me? Maybe.....I hope the men here seeing this will write. It's just coffee or a drink. I love life. I'm hard wired for optimism and try seeing the upside of all things. Integrity, strength of character and ethics are something I never compromise. Honesty isn't optional. Children are gifts I treasure but I'm exploring a life for me now. Being a parent is the best but being a woman is amazing. I'm comfortable alone but happier sharing.