Wow, I really don't know quite what I am doing, but I will give this a try. I hear that I am a fun, high energy, bubbly, fiercely independent person who always wants to live life. I love to travel, explore and laugh. I value friendships, relationships and kindnesses. I am keenly aware of what is important in my world, I have been a widow for more than 9 years, obviously I am not in a huge hurry, it has to be the right person. My mother always said, "don't chase and don't settle." Oh, the messages given to us by a Jewish mother. Laughter and communication are vital. At work I enjoy flexibility, and that allows me to travel and play accordingly. My caseload includes intense trauma and criminal cases, so I have learned to balance. My sense of humor and positive attitude help me to continue to grow. Laughter and playfulness can define a relationship, and I love a challenge, both intellectual and emotional.