I am recently widowed woman of a certain age, which I am told is the new forties. I can be quite outgoing and sociable when the situation is right, but also have the good sense to keep my mouth shut if it isn't. I like to stay active and busy, not too hard with a job, free-lance music work, two grandchildren and a third on the way. I hope to take advantage of my excellent health by getting out and about locally as well as traveling across country and abroad. I love to go to movies, live theater, symphony and chamber music concerts, but would be happy to try sports events as well. My favorite things are to hear someone else's stories and to share a good laugh. Oh, and I can cook.