I am an easy going 49 year old gentle, soft spoken, pensive, soothing natured, sensitive intellectual, very discerning, with a wry sense of humour, appreciates a sense of mystery, am affectionate, passionate, intimate, can be intense, loving and loyal. Seeking to navigate the joys and pitfalls of life with similar minded easy going same in grounded woman, modest, self assurred, comfortable in her own skin also more intrigued by the big picture than the banality of day to day life. Must be a sensational conversationalist but mostly must love me for who I am not what I can do for them in a utilitarian sense. I am fun loving and adventuresome with a diversity of interests, dreams, ambitions and priorities. Life is too short for emotional drama or games. I'm looking for the genuine proverbial girl next door to share good times and bad. Family and friends are a priority but not at the expense of my significant other. I want to share my life with you....share myself with you generously and with abandon. I'm not going to share my likes and dislikes. That's a bourgeois conversation for another time and another place. I'm a peacemaker, a healer, a listener. I get it. Do you?