The "Funny, he doesn't look Jewish" question.
First, I'm not necessarily looking for someone Jewish. I have a sympatico with Jews, but I'm just looking for a good partner, Jewish or not.
My Jewish connection - my daughter and ex-wife are Jewish. My first home in the U.S. was Brooklyn. Then I lived in modern orthodox Flushing. I subsequently lived on Long Island, in The Bronx, and in Manhattan. I spent my teen years in an Italian-American town on Long Island.
My college sweetheart was Jewish, as was my wife. My best friend is Jewish, so is another close buddy. One of my law partners is Jewish. My children were raised Jewish-Buddhist (Jewbuus). I was very active in shul life, participating in Torah study. I can tell you more later.
Personality characteristics which feel comfortable for me include awakenness and consciousness. I like to ask questions. I like introspective people. These attributes are common and valued in Jewish culture. You don't have to have all of these. Chinese and Jewish traditions have much in common. And there's that terrible joke about how many goyim get into CAL.
Please don't be put off by all the Jewishness in my history. I am a spiritual seeker and have walked a few paths. I identify as Chinese-American. My reason for being on a Jewish dating site might be as simple as a pintele yid inside me. That, and I want to meet someone special.
Now the more common profile:
Looking for a woman who tries to be a kind, loving person. The rest is sauce.
I'm a dress-down man, partly because I wear a monkey suit five days a week. Physical intimacy is important to me, but I want a sense of mutual trust first. I want us to like each other. The women who stay up with me talking through the night have became ones I love. Not required if you just cannot stay awake.
I value my three closest friends. I have a loyal and special crowd of friends in New York. My children and I share mutual love and friendship. Animals have been cornerstones of my life.
My life is rich. I am grateful.