Yes, it's true, I have a list of 8million things that I'm looking for in an ideal match (which if we are honest we probably all do and should have), but when it comes down to it all that truly matters is that there's a wow factor and an "I can't wait to see you again" feeling. There needs to be that unexplainable and undeniable chemistry and connection. I am looking for that feeling mixed with someone who has complimentary interests (knowing what you like with an open mind to new things). Someone that has the ability to be flexible and opinionated, as well as the ability and desire to have deep meaningful conversations with ease and to have fun and be free spirited and down for whatever, and the desire to be spontaneous and can go with the flow as well as being determined with intense drive, work ethic and dedication. One of my biggest attractions to someone is when they are truly aware and capable. Also someone who understands the power of the details and has passion and someone who knows how to be alone as well as together.
There needs to be an intense attraction and so much laughter and nothing is more attractive than someone that is intriguing both with their creativity and their intelligence. That's a pretty good start to the things that are important to me.
Turn offs: negativity, self-loathing, bad taste in food (subjective ha), unable to adapt to surroundings, lack of drive, laziness