I am an old fashioned romantic who truly is the guy who likes “Pina Coladas and long walks in the rain”. At this stage of life we all know what exactly we are looking for. For me, I am truly looking for my soul mate and true love. I am looking for someone who knows how to unconditionally love, and be loved. I have been told by g-d that there is a special someone out there, that will be the one who makes everything right, and all the pain and suffering and sacrifices along the way will be rewarded.
In order to be this person, they will have to possess the following qualities: Must love public displays of affection, including holding hands, stopping for no reason to allow for a deep mind numbing kiss to remind you that you are that someone special and I love you. Prefer a candle lit dinner for two rather than going out…yes I will cook it. Prefer two rather than a crowd. Like picnic dinners (wine & cheese, etc.) on the beach rather than a restaurant (yes I will prepare). Spending a cozy night on the couch watching TV or a good movie or better yet football. Don’t get me wrong I do enjoy a good movie, dinner, show or concert out occasionally as well.
You must be able to love and be loved unconditionally. Say it and hear it multiple times a day. Show and feel the love physically every day.
The right person has to be totally honest, committed to our relationship on every level, my best friend/partner, trustworthy, honest, monogamous (eventually), like to laugh and enjoy the simple and natural things that life has to offer.
Life is too short to waste any time or opportunity. At this stage you know what’s right as soon as you meet. Have no time for games, just friends, or just dinner date. I am looking for the “real thing”.
I believe the past definitely determines who you are today. However, we all have our battle scars, and I will not allow that to interfere with the natural coarse of things. The past is just that, I live in the NOW.
In return you will be loved, honored, respected, valued, cherished and treated like you never have before.
I am looking for a 100/100 relationship not 50/50. So for those of you I scared, you are obviously not ready to live the fairy tale “they lived happily ever after”. For the right one who is willing to commit, I promise you will never feel alone or disappointed. You will be the happiest you ever have been, and know what its like to have a true soulmate, partner, best friend and lover.