I'm a smart, pretty, fun loving, and deep thinking woman. My primary orientation is towards quality connection, and social change in it's more intimate and personal manifestations. In my mind there is no separation between the personal and political~ they are a mobius strip of interconnectivity. I'm an ENFP (Extroverted, Intuitive, Feeling, Perceiving) Myers Briggs Personality types (it's worth reading the description, it's a great short hand for understanding people). Much of the time I am tending to the interpersonal realm~ working with individuals and couples as a therapist, and facilitating relational transformation for the good. I believe that if everyone had access the the cutting edge knowledge coming out of attachment theory and neuroscience about what makes for great relationships, and how powerfully transformative they are, we would have a very different world. I secretly (not so secret now) long for a partner in crime...a man who is also called to contribute to social transformation in some form or other. I think about climate change, and integrate sustainable values, with my appreciation for beauty and comfort. I'd love a man who would be my partner in crime in this~ how to live a juicy pleasure filled green life, that is not about self sacrifice, but rather wise choices. I'm sex positive, and am often reading some amazing book about sexuality, or couples, and love to share this growing body of wisdom with folks I'm close to. I am progressive and feminist, and have a deep appreciation for the virtues of masculinity. I'm looking for a man who can meet me emotionally and intellectually, and be sexy and playful with me.