I can write a "your resume should look like this" profile, but at the end of the day, when you get to know someone, you get to know someone. That takes time and is a better indicator of being a match than trying to find the perfect person that you're asking for online. I've learned to treat this as more of a real world thing- you meet and get to know someone and you continue on or cut your losses. With THAT being said, a few things:
Sapiosexual. There's nothing more attractive than intelligence and someone who is hardworking. I'm always looking to learn and find it really attractive when someone can teach me something in a manner that is not condescending.
Time is tight and life is short- I want someone who wants to do fun stuff and helps me to make time for it. I want to be gently pushed out of my comfort zone by someone I know I can trust to make sure I'm safe.
Don't message me if you smoke cigarettes or indulge in any drug use whatsoever.
Non-affectionate people need not apply.
I love to laugh and make others laugh and spend a lot of time seeing the humor in otherwise bland situations.
I hope you like dogs.
Please put the word "smart" in your message so that I know you read my profile :)