I am taking my own advice and changing my approach to this online personal ad thing. I could tell many things about me both physical and emotionally, but it still would not tell you about who I am. They would just be words. Life is too short to waste time. I am far from perfect, but that doesn’t mean that I can’t strive for it even knowing that it is impossible to achieve. I work hard and put forth and honest effort to do my part in society, to be a productive member as well as supporting myself. I have great confidence in my abilities but also know that I must continue to stretch the limit of my abilities too learn and grow more. I very much want to have a family of my own. I am devoted to that goal and know in my heart that once I have achieved that goal, I am still not done. It is my responsibility to nurture that family that my partner and I have created, to teach them what I have learned, to pass on my values, but mostly to spend as much time as possible with them. I believe that when you create a family, you have chosen to commit your life to that family. This does not mean that you sacrifice who you are and what you do, but your time is now their time. What I am saying is that when I am not at work supporting my family I am at home with my family, and my home is wherever my family is. This is who I am. If you like that, then don’t wait any longer, send me a reply. If you are undecided about wanting a family, don’t reply because we are just not in the same place in our lives to match up.