Can you win my heart and trust? The most recent photos are the first two (after I lost a lot of weight). I'm very vivacious and have great genes in my family and admit that I am actually 65 (which is difficult for me to believe. How did that happen! LOL). If that's an issue, then you are really shallow. If you don't think I should retire my dating shoes, then please let me know. The men in the photos are Larry King and Mike Wallace and then fashion designer Elie Tahari. (I know the pictures of me are not good ones.) My goal is to find my soulmate, not an easy thing to do as you are no doubt aware, or you wouldn't be on JDate. It is my desire to share life's adventures with someone who is also secure and happy with himself, to have that unique rapport, respect, affection, and passion of being a couple in love. I work full time and for the past 19 years have been employed in the same Boca Raton, FL law firm. I was raised on Lake Hopatcong, NJ, resided 5 years in Manhattan, 14 years in Massachusetts, and about 20 plus years now in Boca Raton. After divorce, I was a single working mom since my daughter was 5. Now I'm an empty-nester and proud of my successful independent daughter! I look forward to sharing life's adventures. I have been blessed because after my divorce, I found mutual unconditional love for 15 yrs. (he unexpectedly passed away), and again for 4 years, but do hope to find it again. Is there anyone out there who is receptive to going to bed at night and waking up in the morning with that warm, fuzzy, intimate feeling of being in a mutual unconditional loving relationship, enjoying one another and actually feeling completed and happy?