I'm a simple and honest man who doesn't need big productions or big drama in my life. I'm shy at first but once I start feeling comfortable then I'm more then willing to open up and tell you all you want to know. I have a great small group of close-knit friends that I hold most dear in my life. We love just hanging out and cooking or going to see some great music (usually in the jamband scene.) but can never rule out a good sushi meal
The woman I'm looking for would share some of the same music, political and spiritual interest of mine. But also have plenty of differences between us, so we could continuously learn about and from each other. I like woman who are intelligent and not afraid to show it, be able to laugh out loud and doesn't mind making the first move. A healthy relationship is a true symbiotic one. Each using his/her strengths to help with each others weaknesses (we all have them.)
Also very important to me is compatibility, being able to just "chill" with someone, whether it be out in a restaurant, at a show, and most important, just at home. Knowing you can tell them your deepest dreams and fears and they will always have open arms for a good hug. Also, sharing the same kind of humor is a must (sarcasm, intelligent wit and a bit of dark comedy).
Reading is sexy, so I would love a woman who can enjoy a good book. Also, Someone who appreciates sports. I’m a jeans and t-shirt guy looking for a woman to share in the groove.
In life I'm not as stiff as this essay. I assure you. Just not that great as a writer. Reader yes. Writer no.