I have taken the chance with Jdate..(more times than I'd care to admit) and over the years have learned that its all about intregrity. If one is not honest enough with himself, he/she can't be honest with others..(PLEASE..if you're not divorced or seperated...don't say you are!!) I'm a sales representative and find my time has truly become my own.I love music and old movies. I am considered a good cook and enjoy entertaining family. Family means the world to me...They are my support system and best friends.As EVERYONE else says...I love the beach...but I really do..I enjoy bicycling down to the boardwalk and spending an afternoon relaxing in the sun with a good book, a great drink and enjoyable company. Ultimately, I would like to move out of new york and spend time with what should be my "best friend".