I am looking for an I am honest, independent, and mature. I know what I want and I want to find someone to share my life with. I am comfortable with who I am and I don't try to be something I am not. I am not the "cool guy" who likes to hang out at bars. I guess I am just an optomist and a romantic. I am eclectic in my interests--photograp hy, traveling, scuba diving, working out, work shop repairs, writer. I am a pediatrician. I have two offices, one of which is in my house. I don't have a significant other to tell me not see patients in my house so I do. Being kind to strangers and their kids is a requisite for the job. I am looking for someone who can joke about lifes ups and downs and about herself. Ahhh--and so who am I looking for--to find a lover, a wife, one who wants to be a mom, a best friend, and someone to share the lifes adventures no matter where it leads.