Friends and coworkers consider me as last of the boy scouts,nice guy, well grounded, focused, honesty, integrity, loyalty are terms that they use. 5ft9 about 200 lbs. Not in to mind games what you see is what you get. Can be too serious, very gentle and loving, can be golf fanatic (only to challenge myself not against those I play with). People have said that I put up a gruff exterior (actually very shy with newly met people) but have a warm soul underneath the protective shell. Like everyone else on this site -- have had my share of life's hard times which brought me to this site and have grown stronger from the experience. Life seems back on track and I am standing in sunshine under blue skies with a future that is secured again. All seems almost back to normal except for a long term partner to share life's experiences (up or downs) and make new memories. Not seeking perfect -- just perfect for me - honest attraction - it does not have to be complicated. Looking for someone who can still make my heart skip a beat or two - I know you are out there. Take a chance you might be pleasently surprised.