Looking for someone who can keep up with me intellectually, w/ sense of humor, well mannered, passionate guy who's intersted in life, traveling, family and whats around him. I'm looking for a lasting, real connection and not into games or wasting each other's time. NO : Buharians, Gorskiy (strictly enforced).
I appriciate when a man pocesses certain qualities: Big Heart, Compassion, intelligence, ambition, Flowers, aquired common sense and a sense of humor (very important:).
for guys who live in the city: please read my profile I live in Bk, and NO I wont take the train to come to the city and meet you there (I'm not 24/7 Convience store).
i dont have : yourspace, myspace, facebook, twitter or any other virtual reality I prefer : voice and face-to face conversation and not writing the next American novel about my life on emails.
Finally (just to save us both time , this is what I consider as a DATE and what is acceptable for me, some form of the following) 1.you Pick me up (flowers is optional lol), 2. dinner (not Starbucks, coffee, dessert, drinks God knows what else) an alternative is : movies, comedy clubs,lounge, etc, 3. You pay , and Don't stare at the check like you've been tortured in Guatanamo Bay for a year 4. you Drive me home safely meaning you're not drunk and you care that I get home safe. Very simple. If you think you can follow this master plan please contact me and I'd love to know more about you.
About Me: I have a great sense of humor ( but i do have to be comfortable with the person first), educated, feminine, compassionate, I like outdoors (not camping, more into boats, parks, beach, having bbqs etc), family-oriented,love to travel for vacations,trying out new places, fine dining, movies, Broadway, just having fun.
PS: Lately I've noticed that I receive a number of hate mail from men who take my profile, read it over and over, analyze it to death (I suppose in this economy they cant find anything Better to do with their time) and then....take upon themselves to write me a full essay-long criticism of everything that they dont agree with in MY profile. I'm just gona put it out there once and for All-- My profile reflects MY PERSONAL views about what it is that I'm looking for. It is by no means a One-Size-Fits-All criteria for everyone to agree with me and i like it that way. In case you dont agree with my profile and in your in ur mid 20-s/early 30s you have no clear concept how to take/treat a woman on a date, Dont Write To Me!
If anyone finds it offensive, too much to handle, gets a shortness of breath after reading it, instead of writing your BS to me heres what you CAN do-- you press the "HOME" button on the top left corner of Jdate and it'll redirect you to the home page, where you can view other members with far more suitable profiles. Please dont write your whining nonsense to me b/c you'd only be wasting my time deleting your message. Use your time wisely.