I'm a hard worker, forward thinker who possesses strong values. I am forthright "saying it as it is", authentic, and trustworthy. A healthy mix of book smart and street smart. I am very young at heart and can act silly from time to time : ). I would describe myself as a "feel person" and pretty much base a lot of decisions off my gut instinct. I carry myself with a quiet confidence and make a conscious effort to be aware and responsive of my surroundings at all times.
What am I looking for? Well......I hate to use the word "looking" when it comes to relationships to be honest. To me that mindset seems to be loaded with expectations. I think if we enter relationships with expectations, we only set ourselves up for disappointment. I like to let things be as they are...kind of like "I'll be me....and you be you". and see if our energy matches.......If it does, then we have the recipe for sweetness!! With that being said, I am fully aware no one is perfect. We all have a little good, bad and UGLY in us, and that should just be understood and accepted. Tell you what I am not looking for.....party guys , "loud aggressive" men, promiscuous men and men that like to attract attention to themselves, definitely not my type. I think if I had to sum it up..... what I'm looking for would be based more on a feel rather than a look (if that makes any sense)
I am very comfortable with who I am and what I've become so there's no need for flashy bells and whistles to try and impress anyone. I'd rather fail at something being who I am, than succeed being someone I am not. I am a What You See Is What You Get kind of woman, with some surprises thrown in for good measure! I am not looking for a one night stand or "fresh meat".... the whole booty call thing just isn't my style. Besides....I think the sexiest part of the body is the brain. I am on here looking for one man and one man only (not into serial dating)I am truly looking for something with substance and longevity, in other words something real.