As far as I know, I'm the only metal Jewish rocker chick on Jdate.:)
I'm a doer and not just a passive onlooker in life. I'm rather goal-oriented.....my passion is music. Yes, I am a musician, and I love what I do and am happiest when working towards this dream. Individuality, hard work, doing my absolute best to live up to my word and taking care of/standing up for my own are are core values of mine. Don't let the metal frontwoman scare you -- beneath the take-no-prisoners rock chick image there's a softer girl-next-door inside who likes her recharge time with a special someone.
I've been told I'm "edgier" than a lot of women. I'm someone who's not afraid to eat a steak, go on a mud run, or rough it on the road while doing my share of driving the band van and trailer. But, for the right occasion I can pull off the heels and lacy, frilly dress, though I may chuckle at myself for it at times. Overall I'm a fairly informal and low-maintenance individual. I walk comfortably in both the rock/metal music world and more traditional settings, and find friends in both -- and I would love it if you could do the same. Yes, I would respect your mother, probably like her a lot, and most likely get along with her very well.
And even though I'm a vocalist, I don't have "LSD" ) (yes, I know it's *not* all about me.) Nor do I come with the drama that most folks think we musicians live and breathe -- my life is very drama-free and focused. And, I don't have any tattoos. That is a conscious choice in keeping with our traditions. (See, now your grandmother will like me too.)
At this stage in my life, I have permanently closed the door to the possibility of having (biological) children. I certainly *don't* hate kids in fact I've enjoyed teaching dance to kids 8 and up in the past. Maybe I'd adopt someday if I'm ever in a position to do so. That may put off a lot of you, but better to know now than waste your time, and I do hope you find a woman whose goals in life match yours in that respect.
In short, I want a healthy, lasting relationship (who doesn't on here?), am willing to put the work into it for the right guy, and I have a lot of unique qualities and perspectives to offer a good man. I would really love to have someone to share the exciting train of this life that I'm driving, and to find someone who is equally eager share the minutiae of his life with me.