I am a good friend as I place a high value on friendship and family.I want to meet my soul mate and spend the rest of my life with her as fulfilled as both of us can be.I am a man of substance and integrity with a little animation thrown in. I am well educated(bs,msw,jd,c dac) but street smart .I have eclectic tastes and a healthy sense of humor. I have a sweet golden retriever named Alfie, Love Seinfeld! I am a good cook -own 5 woks. Most important I raised a child in a long term relationship and I learned a lot about the true value of life. I want a woman with HEART.