ok, ok; we all love to laugh, have fun, work out 10 times a week, make a zillion, travel, not sweat the small stuff. need i go on? i don't think you really want me to.. here's the thing; i don't push a button to laugh or do all these things, i enjoy my life-Played all kinds of music all over the world (NY Philharmonic, festivals, Broadway, movies, tv, etc.), and would enjoy it even more with someone with whom i have conversational chemistry- the kind that adds fuel to the fire of the usual kind of chemistry. what is chemistry? i don't really need to scientifically figure it out, i know it when i have it. i mean, after we have the damn thing, aren't we trying to go further to something that's so much more fulfilling? i'm not saying i'm immune to it- i'm not. but it's just a means to a much better end.