I am sick of all the games that have been played since i have been back to the dating scene...I am a great person and have a very big heart and can treat the right man with the great respect and love and tenderness that he deserves. (put it this way i have been called ignorant because i wont date a guy that is shorter than myself but hey so be it then. i just know what i want and to be uncomfortable is not one of them!! And besides a true guy interested with a good caring and loving heart himself would not start things off by being nasty because of honesty.. I am a little heavy but slimming down and i am not attractive, but i am sincere, give my all into the person i am with. I do not cheat !!!!! been done to me, its wrong. I am looking to have children and start my future within 3 to 5 yrs. I want the fairytale I DESERVE the fairytale. I can stand on my own two feet have a great job and my own dwellings. i have been told by friends that i care more about others than myself and always like to make people feel comfortable and happy. i enjoy going out and just the same staying at home to cuddle. . I want a man to compliment me (not complicate) and want me to shine. If your not looking for a serious relationship or possibly something turning into a serious relationship and are not taller than 6ft , please do not contact me, there are plenty of other women that would love to get to know you more. Dont get me wrong i am up to having friends but at this place in time i want to look forward to the future not stay stuck in the present or yet the past.