I am 5'6, 150 lbs. in good shape (work out regularly); physically, mentally, emtionally and spiritually available. I do not need a man to "complete" me, but rather to complement me. I am honest enough with myself to know that chemistry must happen on all levels: physical, as well as the more cerebral aspects! Open communication and honesty are the most important ingredients of any relationship and a "must have" with me.