I am special. The Rabbi said so. I have a Jewish mother who celebrates Christmas and a non Jewish father who could care less. What's that tell ya? When I was in my 20's-30's I was a stud that could not be tamed. In my 40's I mellowed and briefly settled a couple of times with the length of time extending at times. Now, having the benefit of experiences far and wide I can tell you that today I am still not perfect but I am a pretty good catch for the right One.