Personal experiences are everything after age 40. I honestly never thought that I would be single at this age, I am sure that most everyone else on JDate feels the same way.At least 3 men I know have met their wives here and I continue to remain optimistic. In my 20's, the "hunt" was what I was after. I felt that my special someone would come along and I would be coaching youth recreational sports by now. I started a business that has become successful, and into the 30's I went. At this point I am figuring that my "stock" would continue to rise because I am a nice guy, financially successful and my baggage was only enough to fill a knapsack. Once again, the next phase of my business took place and then I figured by now I would be nearing the sports field as a father.Well flash forward to now, I am 42 and out of excuses, still a nice guy, still in good shape and have had my share of good and bad dates, texts, conversations where the only constant is that the casual cocktails I drink are still really good.If you are interested in wanting to see what the next level of a life filled with personal experience less the excuses can be, please send me an email.