Hmmm.......I have been divorced for over 7 years, and have had full custody of my now 17 year old son for the same. I was very active in my kid's life and loved every second of it, but now that he's 17 with wheels, barely see him! Thankfully, he's a total mensch! I have been a youth soccer coach for 18 years and a referee for 7. I have played guitar for over 35 years (rock and blues only.......sorry you disco, country hip hoppers!) and realize daily that perfection is unattainable! Have been kind of a "super dad" (and mom), now having a lot more free time on my hands. Was in the floral industry for over 20 years and am now a Recruiter. Lots more! Ask and I will tell .