Prove me wrong! At the moment, I sincerely doubt that anyone is still even reading these profiles, much less looking for someone like me on Jdate. I have a lot to offer the right person, but my experience is that women on this site aren't looking for a real guy like me, they want someone who is 6 feet tall, 25 years old, great looking, and fabulously wealthy(and most of those guys are either attached or have boyfriends of their own!). So, what you see is what you get, 41, but not the youngest, decent looking, but NOT at home at Abercrombie and Fitch! I'm creative, compassionate and caring, but not looking to be your unofficial therapist or reliable stand-in date (been there, done that, have the t-shirt). So, take me for what I am, or leave me in the cyber dust-I have no expectations at this point, I'm just here just in case!