The last of the Jewish He-men; Love for my child and being a dedicated parent and healer make me the he-man not the weight room. But all I ever fought with is my own conscience. Inside I'm just plain sweet. My whole career is based on giving, sweetness, and mitvot and helping little old ladies across the street. My 9 year old son tought me how to be sweet, caring, and have fun like throwing others into the pool, whoopie cushions, and mini golf. And the simple pleasures of a water baloon fight. I'm intellectual, educated, grounded, spiritual in a higher sense yet raised in a non-religious way. I belong to KI with the reformed Jews(I snuck in), but can't read Hebrew, yet I'm a good Jew. I'm almost divorced - by year's end and looking for a new beginning to start a new life while I'm still studlie (picture Tom Selick ( 's) meets Johnny Depp. Still have all my hair and none on my back. I am an outdoor guy for the bike, the hike, or the Kayak. You will rarely (ie never) find me in a museum, lecture, book signing, or other bogus events attended by people wanting to look intellectual or refined. I am a great cook and a better eater (i weigh 150 lb), and so I rarely get into fine dining - I'm more of an active date guy in a canoe than a lets sit around and eat date. Though my recent vacations were in Carribean resorts, it reminds me that sitting at the pool and eating buffets and sunbathing are not my "pseodo-active" interests. I just got rid of cable, down to 10 channels that I rarely watch anyway. If you want sweet, and caring for others, then step inside, but if you want nice meals and driven around in a Shaguar(Yeah, Baby!), I'm not your man. Taller women should not be ruled out under 5' 9". I also prefer full disclosure - saves alot of time and alot of running around.