Here's the deal: if you're looking for a good, decent, honest, loyal guy with a sense of humor, who has an overwhelming aversion to playing mind games - you might have just found him (hint: it's me). I have my head on straight (most of the time), and not a ton of emotional baggage - which is a lot more than you can say for half the people out there these days. I might have made some questionable decisions in the past (you don't get to be 35 years old with a spotless personal record), but I don't regret any of them. I have a 5 year old son, and he is the best thing that has ever happened to me. I work hard, read a lot, hang out with a couple of my friends, and that's about the extent of my social life.