I am never too sure just how deep and informative I should get in this personal essay, as I am not so convinced we all read it too closely. I know men are more visual than women, but I still think the photo is generally the attention grabber. There are so many things I am into, but that does not mean they define me. Some of these things are travel, education, literature, exercise, athletics, intelligent discussion, laughter (my laughing, or making others laugh), Israel, fine food, chicken wings ....the list can and does go on. We can learn something from everyone we come into contact with, but there is not enough time to interview every person on the street either. So, Jdate is a way to begin that filtering process. If you are cooler than a polar bear's toenails (get the music reference?), easy going, kind, sharp, and you can "take it as well as you dish it out"....then we might just get along.